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What is a Utah Parenting Plan and How Do I Make One

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What is a Utah Parenting Plan And How Do I Make One?

A plain-English guide to custody types, schedules, holidays, communication, and dispute resolution

In Utah, a parenting plan is required whenever parents share custody of a child. This document sets out the rules for how legal decisions will be made, where the child will live, how holidays and vacations will be divided, how parents will communicate, and how disputes will be resolved.

The court won’t approve a shared custody arrangement unless a parenting plan is filed and accepted. Done right, a parenting plan can prevent conflict, protect your child’s routine, and make life smoother for both parents. Done poorly or left vague, it can create years of stress and costly court battles.

This guide walks you step by step through the Utah requirements, provides template clauses you can copy, and highlights the common mistakes that cause problems later.

01

Legal vs. Physical Custody

Utah law separates custody into two categories. Courts often award joint legal custody, while physical custody may be joint or primary with parent-time for the other parent.

Legal Custody

The right to make important decisions for your child, including health care, education, religious upbringing, and major life choices.

Physical Custody

Where the child lives and who handles daily care, meals, transportation, and routines.

Template Language

“Parents shall share joint legal custody of the minor child. Primary physical custody shall reside with Mother. Father shall exercise parent-time as outlined in this plan.”

Common Mistake

Assuming “joint custody” means 50/50 time. Your plan must define what “joint” means for your family.

02

Required Sections of a Utah Parenting Plan

Utah Code §30-3-10.8 outlines what a parenting plan must include. Use precise, enforceable terms.

  • Custody arrangements – Who has legal custody, who has physical custody, and what “joint” means in your case.
  • Parent-time schedules – Weekdays, weekends, overnights, exchanges, and locations.
  • Holiday and vacation schedule – How holidays, birthdays, school breaks, and travel work.
  • Transportation responsibilities – Who picks up, who drops off, and where.
  • Decision-making & communication – How parents share information and how the child contacts each parent.
  • Dispute resolution – Mediation or other method before court filings.

Template: “Parents shall notify each other of medical appointments and school events at least 7 days in advance via text or email.”

Common mistake: Leaving transportation or notice periods vague. Specific times and duties reduce conflict.

03

Holidays and Vacations

Utah generally alternates holidays unless parents agree otherwise. A common pattern:

  • Thanksgiving: Mother in even years, Father in odd years.
  • Christmas Eve: Father in even years, Mother in odd years.
  • Christmas Day: Mother in even years, Father in odd years.
  • Spring Break: Alternated each year.
  • Summer: Each parent gets two or more uninterrupted weeks with advance notice.

Template: “Each parent shall have two uninterrupted weeks of summer vacation time. The parent requesting vacation shall give at least 30 days’ written notice to the other parent.”

Common mistake: Omitting travel restrictions. If out-of-state or international travel requires consent, say so explicitly.

04

Communication Rules

Cover both parent-to-parent and child-to-parent communication to prevent friction.

Template: “Parents shall communicate through the OurFamilyWizard app for all scheduling and logistical matters. The child shall be permitted one daily video call with the non-custodial parent during extended parent-time.”

Common mistake: Relying on “Parents will cooperate.” Courts prefer clear, enforceable rules.

05

Dispute Resolution

Even strong plans won’t prevent every issue. Utah requires a method for resolving disputes, typically mediation first.

Template: “Parents agree to participate in mediation with a mutually agreed-upon mediator before filing any motion in court regarding parenting plan disputes. Mediation costs shall be shared equally unless otherwise ordered by the court.”

Common mistake: Not stating who pays for mediation or how the mediator is chosen.

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Example: Special Schedules

Account for rotating or 24-hour shifts common to firefighters, medical staff, and airline crew.

Template: “If Parent A is scheduled for a 24-hour work shift, Parent B shall exercise parenting time during that shift. Parent A shall have make-up parenting time the following weekend, provided at least 7 days’ notice is given.”

07

Filing Your Parenting Plan

Submit your plan to the court for approval. Once signed, it becomes a binding order. If a parent fails to comply, the other can seek enforcement.

Tip: Utah’s official court website provides parenting plan forms. If your case is complex, consult a Utah family law attorney to avoid delays or errors.

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Key Takeaways

A Utah parenting plan is mandatory for shared custody and must define legal custody, physical custody, and parent-time clearly.

Specify holidays, travel rules, communication, and dispute resolution to avoid future conflict.

Use precise, enforceable language; vagueness leads to misunderstandings and court disputes.

This page is legal information, not legal advice. Consult a Utah attorney for guidance on your situation.

Next Step

Ready to draft your plan? Start by outlining custody, schedules, holidays, and communication rules, then fill in Utah’s official forms.

Talk to a Utah Family Lawyer

A short consult can help you align with Utah requirements, avoid vague clauses, and file a plan the court will approve.

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